He was good man, he could be kind, he
could be elegant. He had a warm soul, and sunny smile. When people
looked at him they wanted to be his friend. Despite his faults, and
despite mistakes that he had made in life. For a time.
The only person that couldn't forgive
him for all his vice, his errors, and his disappointment of what he
had allowed himself to become, was he. Because, he knew deep down
that he could have been so much more. And only because of fear, did
he never allow himself to become anything he wanted to be.
It's not something to be easily
shrugged off, nor should one assume that they have an understanding
of this fear, this is a fear that coils deep, and can choke out the
spirit of dreams, without ever knowing that it was there.
In this he took a small amount of
pride, he had discovered his fear, and he had, for a time, tried to
over come it. He had simply failed, because he never countered his
fear with the only thing that can truly overcome it. Which is love.
He had had love in his life, but that
was before he had identified his fear, that orange, dark fear, that
pushed all those that could have truly loved him, away. So, in the
middle of his life, he embraced the fear, assuming that it was too
little, and too late, to ever hope for becoming something that he
would be proud to be.
And when the fear completely over too
him, that's when he allowed for the debauchery to reach extremes that
he had never thought possible, when he was still fighting the good
fight. Now, instead of wit, he had verbal abuse. Instead of a smile,
he had a sneer. He didn't even notice the difference, and when the
last of anyone who had been in his life left him. He felt glad, for
he knew he was righteous in his failure.
A person can feel as if they are
spending their life on a scale, between accomplishment and failure, a
good and a bad. And a person can think that their life is about the
tip in their own personal scale. And once the tip happens, it is
impossible to turn the other way. So they are vindicated in the
actions of negativity.
The scale is always weighted in this
mentality, towards failure. Towards despair.
When all the people in his life that
were good, left him, he had to destroy more of himself. He needed to
completely eliminate any and all sparks of hope that still plagued
him when he was least expecting it. In the shower it would happen.
His mind would wander, towards a happy hope, where he had a love,
where he enjoyed his day. Where he could feel the sun on his face and
be happy. Where he could be whole.
That's when the drugs became excessive.
That's when the diseases would be contracted, and never repaired.
In his minds eye, he saw himself as a
battered hero, misunderstood and unloved. The latter two were
correct, the former was delusional. He was no hero, he wasn't even a
anti-hero. He was a shell of a man, a self proclaimed hopeless case,
that deserved no pity, and received none, unless he begged to
strangers.
On his fiftieth birthday, he was told
that if he didn't change his behaviour, he would die a slow painful
death. He tried to convince the doctor that he had been doing that
since he was born. There was no pity there.
Sometimes, in a person, no matter how
dark they get, no matter how great their fear. A spark can become a
fire. It can be called Divine Intervention by the religious. Somehow,
though, when he reached what he would normally think of his glass
being half empty. On his fifty first birthday, he became aware, that
he still had maybe twenty five good years left. In which he could do
anything he wanted.
His smile was the first thing to
return. Brighter than it ever had before. Day to day choices are what
tip the scale, day to day choices are what can allow a person to
realize that there is no scale. There is no balance, there is no
measurement, other than what effort is made.
For the first time in his life, he knew
how to overcome his fear. All by himself. Like he always wanted to.
Completely alone, after wreaking havoc for all of his adult life, he
became a good man. Instead of begging for pity, he begged for
forgiveness.
Everyone forgave him, but to his great
dismay, no one accepted him back into their lives. It's easy to
forgive, it's hard to trust. A lesson that he learned too late, but
he accepted it, and moved on.
He never found love, but he did give
what he could for the rest of his life towards helping others
overcome their fears.
He only lived for another ten years,
and died of heart failure in a restaurant, giving advice to a young
man, who didn't hear a word that was ever spoken to him.
He grew irate with the boy, he had
never met anyone so much like him before, in all his years of helping
people. The more he tried to help the boy, the more the boy pushed
him away.
It was more than his heart could take.
He died trying to save the boy, he died trying to save himself.
The boy was a good boy, he would become
a decent man, an elegant man. Whose smile would always light up a
room. Except for a fear in him. A constant, dark orange fear, that
would coil around his spirit and force him to stop before he started
anything. He thought that his life was a balancing act, between
accomplishment and failure. And that it would always be weighted
against him.
This is beautiful.
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